Saturday, April 12, 2025

well, would you look at that . . .

Hello.  My name is Inigo Montoya . . . 

Wait, that's not right.  This isn't Princess Bride.  It's me . . .daNeesey, from Count it all JOY!  (Which has been a real challenge over the last three years. But I digress.)

So lemme try this again.  

Hey, this is Denise.  I'm a crafter of an eclectic mix of stitchery crafts (think wool applique, quilting, needlework, cross stitch, crochet, etc.), a Neesey (my grandma name is Neesey), a cat mom (that's new!), an apartment dweller (also new), a violinist wannabe (practice, practice, practice), a widow (which is still so sad and weird to say), a tea drinker (who now hows an entire cabinet dedicated to tea—seriously), a lover of books and the written word (who now has three sets of bookshelves), a writer who refuses to give up the dedicated two spaces that are meant to follow a period (:P to APA), a poet (betcha didn't know that one) and a soon-to-be-regular blogger (again) (hopefully).  There's so much more, but that's a good start and gives me loads of opportunities to fill in the blanks.  Just think of it as blog post opportunities.  Y'all, I'm trying.  

So instead of going back to July of last year–my last post–and catching up, I'll just start where I am.  I feel like that's a solid plan.
Me with the local family, just last night.  Aren't they beautiful?! 
I love my new apartment.  It's four minutes to my local grands, has a pool, and an elevator, which is important if you're on the top floor.  It also has a Nook to which I do not have to go outside to get to (which is really only important if it's dark and bears or wolves might get you, or if it's raining/stormy).  The new Nook also has a new sewing machine! The space is messy right now (always) and you can see I share this space with the kittens. The walls in here are mostly bare, but I've got a design wall to install on the back wall, behind my sewing station, so that will add color, as well as two bulletin boards and a painting.  I'd also like to add a strip to hang smaller wall hangings on.
This is my new Janome—Horizon Memory Craft 9480 QCP.  It stitches like a dream!

I've got a lovely balcony . . . it's west facing, so I enjoy marvelous sunsets and a view of the pool and the lake, and the constant sound of waterfalls (fountains), which I adore.  I really enjoy sitting out there early in the day and in the evening.

All our deck furniture from the Camp came over and fit nicely.  I added a huge potted plant and the fun rug.  It's comfy!

It's a sweet little complex with lots of amenities.  I like I can still see stars and trees and horizon.  

I'm still working out who I am, now that my better half and best friend is gone.  It's a process.  Being close to family and having the girls (big girl kittens, as Ezra refers to them) helps.  Pictured below, Starry is the silver point and Celeste is the all-white.  They are full Maine Coons, and they're just babies (9 months old).  Maine Coons mature more slowly than other breeds and can take 2-5 years to reach their full growth!  Aye yi yi!  They need a full bloggy intro post of their own, so I'll just share their photos here and call that finit, for now.
Starry is the oldest by two weeks.  Quiet and a bit aloof, but has a purr like a race car! She's also incredibly smart and curious: a dangerous combination in a cat!

Half sister, Celeste, is a snuggler and a bit like a puppy.  She plays fetch until I wear her out, and she follows me around the house.  She's deaf, so she definitely needed a cat companion!

I've spent the last year collecting fabrics <ahem>, so I'm working hard to spend time every week in the new Nook stitching.  At my annual SASsy Retreat in January (three of us in a cabin in Seviereville, TN), I set a goal to complete at least one three-yard quilt (or better) a month.  Have you heard of those?  Fabulous! Quilts for everyone!  That's the target, anyway. I missed the mark in March, but it's a work in progress.  April's is planned and should work out quickly!  Here are one finish, three in progress, and one ready-to-get-started project . . . 
My February and first 3-yard quilt top finish.  Love the colors/prints in this!

My second 3-yard quilt.  I just need to stitch the rows together an attach the simple borders.

I upped my cross stitch game over the last year.  This is Coming to American:  The Women of the Mayflower, by With Thy Needle & Thread.  I've never stitched up a project of this scope, but I felt it was a must, seeing as how I'm related to five of the women listed!  :)

Spangled, by Granny's Legacy Patterns.  I've never done beaded wool work, and you know what a sucker I am for anything patriotic, so there we are.

This pretty grouping will be used in my next 3-yard quilt.  Yes, there are actually four yards.  I've never been able to do much of anything strictly by the book!

I'm also slowly starting to get back into social things, like guild, Stitcher's, etc., and have enjoyed seeing friends. Bit by bit.  I miss life at the Camp, but it was just too hard:  physically, mentally and emotionally.  I did bring a piece of it with me, though . . .
These four canvases are photos of four of my very favorite places in the Camp, in each season.  It makes my heart happy to see them on my wall.  To everything there is a season. ♥

I've missed my bloggy friends, too!  Here's to new starts or restarts or whatever this is. See you again soon!

:)

17 expressed . . .:

liferecipes said...

Your apartment is beautiful. Here's to you, being so brave and positive! I haven't lost a husband but we have lost a son so I know grief quite well. We sold our house in one state after the live-in grown son died and moved to another state where our daughter lives with her husband and seven grandchildren. We were not young by any means but decided it was just stupid to be without family. So I applaud what you have done. Change is very hard and but have tackled it! We have been very happy here in our new state and adjusted so happily moving from an urban area to a small rural area. I cannot ever die until all my fabric is used up. Ha Ha. I suppose that means I should stop shopping...

Janet O. said...

Oh, Denise, I so enjoyed catching up on your life. Such a beautiful family photo at the top. So nice that you can be so close to them. Do you now have a granddaughter who is taller than you?
Am thrilled that you have a "Nook" in your new apartment. Looks like a great place to create, and will be even more inviting when all the embellishments are hung. :)
Your balcony is charming--so glad you can enjoy the view, and still see water and sunsets!
Those are some serious "kitties". Nice to have someone to share your space, but they may be a challenge in the Nook. ;)
Good for you, getting involved again. Love that you are making "Quilts for everyone!" The 4 yards of fabric for your next 3-yard quilt are beautiful! And the cross-stitch--wow, that is a challenging pattern. I know we've had this conversation before, but remind me which women are your 5 relations? I've got a few myself.
The seasonal photos of your favorite places from the Camp, along with the scripture between them--that is a beautiful way to remember the good. And I see your violin music stand beside that and it makes me want to squeal with glee! I am so excited that you are moving ahead with that dream. Maybe someday we can do a duet over Facetime, or some other video call.
There I go, rambling, but I am just excited to see you in your blog space, and your new space! Hugs and love!

Cathy said...

So glad to hear from you on your blog once more. So many changes, so very difficult. To be the one left behind when the other goes home to be with the Lord has got to be gut wrenching. You asked how we are doing.... all is well here. Your comment came through as no reply, so I’m answering here. Should we wish to continue chatting, my email is caleeshepherd at gmail.com

Libby in TN said...

Welcome back! I've missed you. So sorry to hear about your Beloved. Being close to family definitely helps. And, my word, have those grands grown! 3-yard quilts are so satisfying to finish. I look forward to seeing all your new projects.

Jocelyn said...

So happy to see you back. 3 yard quilts sound so fun and I will look into them for my charity quilts. Blessings my friend.

Kate said...

So glad to see you back on the blog. What a great sewing nook. It's nice you could find a nice apartment near the family. Those girls have grown! Weren't they babies just yesterday? Look forward to seeing what you get into with needle and thread.

Anonymous said...

Congrats on your new toy! I'm sure many beautiful things will be made from it.

Mary said...

Welcome back. You were missed. Glad you are getting settled in. A new sewing machine with bells and whistles to play on in your nook. How fun to be close to the grands Neesy!

CathieJ said...

I'm glad you are back to blogging. I certainly missed your posts. Your new apartment looks great. I love your view. The kitties are adorable. I can't imagine how hard it is to move on socially. Hopefully your sewing brings you peace. Hugs.

The Cozy Quilter said...

My condolences to you. This past year has been a lot of adjusting to a new normal for you. You have a lovely place to live with a great sewing room and you are close to your grandchildren. Stitching helps us to heal our broken hearts. Take care. Gail

Karrin Hurd said...

Lovely quilts you have been working on. So sorry for your loss. It is wonderful to see you again though!

Jenny said...

Hello there, you've had such a lot of changes in your life lately. I'm so very sorry to read that you have lost your beloved husband, as I have done myself just prior to Christmas. I dont think I like that word widow, but we really are, I guess. Lots of grief happening with me, and with you too, I'm sure, the smallest thing, remembrance or comment can set you off. On a lighter note, your new apartment looks lovely, great views, and oh my, such magnificent cats!

Jenny said...

PS. I also do a bit of writing, and poetry too. It's good to get those thoughts out of your head and down on paper. Mind you, all we bloggers write blogs too, dont we, stories of our lives, our stitching, our families, cats and dogs, cooking. Never see much written about boring old housework though, do we.

Marilyn @ MountainTopSpice said...

Hello Denise! I'm so sorry for the rough time that you've been through, and the loss of your husband was a shock to read, please know my prayers are with you, because I can only imagine it is still a difficult thing to face every day. I'm thankful to read you have a nice comfy home, and a great place to sew and create to your heart's content with your precious kitties as support and companionship, and family close by. So thankful you have those things! Many blessings to you dear friend, and thank you for stopping by to visit!

Donna P. said...

Good Morning and hello! I'm not sure how I found you - probably suggested from another blog. I just want to introduce myself. My dh and I are full time RVers - he is currently work-camping. We're up here in N. AL for the summer. My oldest dd lives near where we're staying along with her family. I'm an avid quilter and cross stitcher though my quilting is very simple and can be very random ;-)
I'm so sorry to read about the passing of your beloved but at the same time rejoice he is with our Lord and Savior.
Many blessings to you and yours.

DR Jessica said...

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Cheryl's Teapots2Quilting said...

I'm way behind on reading blogs. I stopped reading and writing much with blogs a few years ago when a friend, that I was caregiver for, died. I lost my mojo after that. I'm sorry about Todd. My BFF lost her hubby in Spring of 2024, and I know that she is also trying to find her way (still) after caring for him for so long. Glad you found a new place to live, but still kept some things from the old (memories). I'll finish catching up with your blog now....